When my wife and I get in car together and I am driving and she was last driver, I adjust seat to my setting using the memory button. once seated, I hit the start button and seat returns to her setting. So she has to be out of range of her fob until I get it started. Very, very annoying.

 

It's because the car senses your wifes fob. If you had your fob?

 

I have my fob and am in the car and drivers seat

 

That is not making any sense. Maybe, you might have to reset your driver setting. It's possible that it lost the code for the setting and reset itself to default.

 

+1 for resetting your seat memory position.

did she have your fob and program her seat position to the fob?

 

Happy wife = happy life - you have a very smart vehicle!!